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How to Recognize the Signs the Universe Is Sending You
Signs From the Universe · Getting Quiet · The Open Water · Flow
Watch the full message above — the written version below is the short of it.
There is no one else in all the billions of people on this planet who is precisely you — and the deepest part of you is always nudging you toward that unique expression. Often, it does so through signs.
The soul's guidance rarely arrives as neat, orderly instructions. It comes as a feeling, a nudge, an intuitive urge, a gut sense — and, beautifully, through the world around you. The universe is forever offering you messages that point toward your next step, your next patch of open water. The work is simply learning to recognize them. Here's how to tune in.
One
Get quiet enough to hear
Signs are subtle, so first you have to lower the noise. Turn off your phone — genuinely off, which works far better than merely silencing it. (If you worry about emergencies, most phones let you set specific people who can break through, so you can set it down with peace of mind.) Then gently quiet the internal chatter, the ruminating and busy thinking. This is a practice, like yoga: some days it comes easily and some days it doesn't, so go easy on the self-judgment. And come home to your body, because your body is a key to your uniqueness. Any movement or breathwork — dance, yoga, tai chi, a walk, a swim — helps you drop out of the busy mind and into the deeper awareness where the nudges live.
Two
Steer for the open water
Imagine you're floating down a river toward an ocean of ease. You can steer for the rapids, steer for the rocks, or steer for the open water. Where you point your attention is where you'll go, so aim it at what's peaceful, beautiful, and wanted — not at the rocks of what you don't want. Take a everyday snag like who cooks dinner or does the dishes: instead of pushing against each other, the open water asks softer questions. Do we even want to eat together? Is there another way to share the load? And if your preference for how it's done is very particular, that responsibility is yours to carry, or yours to loosen. When you're in this open, aligned state, you naturally start to notice the guidance flowing to you.
The field will bring you the answer to a question you didn't even know you were asking — if you have the ears to hear it.
Three
Watch for the messages, and flow with them
Once you're tuned in, the universe speaks in the language of the Earth itself. A message may arrive as something lost and then found, as an animal — especially a wild one, or one you feel a resonance with — showing up in an unusual way, as a song, or as something a person says right when you need to hear it. Take these as gentle nudges toward your next good-feeling step, not rigid commands. And when you catch your attention snagged on the rocks, on what you don't want, don't panic. Just let yourself bounce off, back into the current, and flow on toward the open water. The river is never smooth or straight for anyone; it eddies and rushes and nicks our knees. But it never ends, and neither does your capacity to return to flow. A simple ritual can help you re-enter it — blessing a glass of water, or setting a jar out to catch the light of the full moon — anything that reminds you to soften, and point yourself once more toward love.
Come tune in with us
The Love Lady community is a warm place to notice the winks and nudges the universe is always sending, and to trust the flow toward your own beautiful, unique path. Noticed a sign lately? Come share it with us.
Wishing you open water, clear signs, and a love-filled day ahead.